grow with experience, keep the essence

Gee.. damn I'm tired of blogging sob stories. At times when I'm feeling just good enough, the sad posts have the potential to pull me down. Last thing I want would be to dampen the mood of my friends any further, when what I need is their support to pull me up.

And I realised that indulgent moods have a tendency to go in a circle. Sometimes people just keep falling in the same hole. Really ought to slap oneself in the face for a wake up call. Why torture yourself this way?

Pain is inevitable, misery is CHOICE.

Sincerity to others is important. And so are the choices we make. To make the best decision, we have to acquire wisdom from our own experiences. Hence, each pain we go through, each challenge we meet, only serves to help us in the future. Everybody goes through different experiences, thus we make different choices given the same scenario. What's best in your opinion may not be what's best in mine. And yet our differences is what makes us so special and from each other, we learn more.

To acquire my wisdom, -my acceptance of things-, I wouldn't wish for life any other way. So bring it on and I'll brave it through. If I ever change, I promise you one thing...

I'll still love food as much. MUAHAHAHAHAHA.. (and if you accept the way I am, you'll always be my friend.)


"Chiquitita you and I know
How the heartaches come and they go and the scars they're leaving
You'll be dancing once again and the pain will end
You will have no time for grieving
Chiquitita you and I cry
But the sun is still in the sky and shining above you
Let me hear you sing once more like you did before
Sing a new song, Chiquitita
Try once more like you did before
Sing a new song, Chiquitita"


P/S: Thank you for a wonderful dinner. In this ever-changing world, thank you for reminding me that what we share is true.