Words of wisdom for the turbulent mind

Clothe yourself with love, blessings, fulfilling moments and forgivings. Then you will have no fear of being vulnerable and loving unconditionally with an open heart.

That strength to love comes from a peaceful place within and will bring you the equilibrium you seek. Be present, be fearless, always.

"It does not do to dwell on dreams and forget to live." - Dumbledore

The neverending struggle

Memories, such strange things. How can something so lovely be so lonely at the same time?

Why choose to revisit places that no longer exist? Why dwell in the past when you should live the present?

To learn my lessons. That's what. To instill some fear and trepidation so that you won't do stupid things to jeopardize your future. About time the rational rider set you straight.

Having said, keep that fervor. Find that balance to dream yet keep your feet grounded. 也是时候长大了, 懂吗？ 朋友归朋友，总是需要学会独立点。Cruel as it sounds, it's a fact that we all die alone. Some self-preservation aight? 💪

Ever gracias.

WAKE UP YOUR IDEA!

Hi stagnant blog, This is your rational rider speaking because the alarm bells must be sounded.

Insomnia again - 3rd night in a row liao. The downside to an awakened rational rider. 😪

Emo elephant: 想那么多干嘛... 不要想了。 睡一觉不是好？

Rational rider: 不可以不去想。my heart cannot afford another devastation the emo elephant loves sending my way.  I don't have that much time left to rebuild the pieces for someone worthy.

Everytime you're about to go head over heels and do something stupid. Think about it... no matter how "right" you feel about the moment, how much do you know about him? Look at it from a 3rd person's point of view, what would you have done? What would you think of your actions if you were a close friend? How would you advise yourself? Run, that's what.   Who the hell goes to 2nd base on a 2nd date? Why did you even let that happen? (Even though I really enjoyed it la..no matter how connected I felt.. is this the way you want to set the tone of a potential relationship?)

Fact check:

- # of Dates: 2

- # of Days known: 11

- Background check: Zilch (don't know surname, only know his Dad is Malaysian)

- Placed reservation name with Alias: Desmond

- Relationship history: last r/s a year ago, longest r/s 1.5years, reason for breakup - Stagnantation

- No msgs when he dropped you off and reached home, after a parting like that (sia la, WTH.. 我是你, 我 😡😡😡 - shows that he doesn't genuinely care about you does it?)

RED ALERT LIAO HELLO!!

Wah... 沈巧盈, you best! Seriously, 不要笨啦。Who goes to 2nd base (citing Yolo) during a 2nd date. 

还一头栽下去, 不知死活。一个Elizabeth Cheong, 又一个Alvin Tay 还不够? 还要作贱自己给被人吃豆腐吗? Better wake up your idea, 不然我看不起你! YO simi LO la!

Not saying he's a wolf in a sheep skin, but slow down woman... take your time to know him. 又不是赶火车。Examine his trustworthiness. 不要一点戒心都没有。

懂吗，soi ju? 都几岁了, 不要让别人以为你好骗。就算他走人也就算了。证明他的正真的企图。别傻了。At the very least, set a mental timeline to pace and protect yourself. Respect yourself.

Don't rush into it. Savour the moment & experience. If it's over here and now, be thankful and think of the damage it could have wrought. (But yea.. still a nice thrilling experience la. Hoho. - hello, not helping, thanks. Ok bye.) 

With much love,

Your rational rider that's awakened once in a blue moon (don't say never give last warning)

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